Last March 25, Senator Koko Pimentel tested positive for COVID-19. When he got the news, he was in Makati Medical Hospital. This instantly drew flak from the netizens and with good reason! Senator Pimentel had previously had fever, and had exhibited other flu life symptoms. For all intents and purposes, he was a prime candidate for being declared a PUI.
Before proceeding, let me add context. Senator Pimentel's wife was giving birth and that's why he accompanied her to the hospital. It wasn't him that needed any care, it was his wife and child. If I were to put myself in Senator Koko's shoes, I actually don't know what I would do. I'm simply thinking in terms of me and Nikki. If Nikki were pregnant and giving birth, I would do almost anything to get her to the hospital and be there for her. Not even COVID might stop me.
In that respect, I understand why the senator did what he did. Before Senator Koko is a senator or a public servant, he is primarily a husband to his wife and a father to his child. While I would appreciate it more if he had put all this aside for the common good, he did put his family first. As I'm getting married soon, I can sympathize with the senator. I still disagree with his actions given everything we know now about this virus but nonetheless, I can sympathize with him.
People criticize the actions of Senator Koko as being stupid and irresponsible. I wholeheartedly agree. But for me to agree fully, I have to come to a realization that I must practice what I preach. Our wedding was scheduled for May. As of now, there is no end in sight. Our back up plan was to have a small ceremony of our family and maybe a few friends (Gov. Gwen has banned events of more than 20 people). Pushing through with the date, however, might put in danger Nikki's grandma and my parents. We'd have to be in close contact with a photographer and his crew as well as the priest.
This whole episode has made me realize what's most important to us. And while I want to be married to Nikki as soon as possible, I cannot in good conscience take the risk with other people close to me. For now, me and Nikki will have to chose another date. And it's only now that I can truly say, "I'm fine with that."