I never met Mavis but her passing has affected me more than I thought it would. My friends Lilan and Mitch had their first born child last January 4. She died two days later. A child passing is always a sad thing for the parents and her parents I know for sure were readying themselves the best they could for raising a lovely baby girl.
Like in any other death, it's always best to look at their life instead of focusing on their death. While Mavis had only been 2 days old, I can say she has had a very beautiful and meaningful life. The full nine months she spent in her mother's womb was a sight for all of us to see. Lilan would always complain about being pregnant but no doubt she was happy - scared of the next chapter, but happy.
January 5 was Lilan's due date so we all expected some form of news last Sunday. When news of any form did not come, I decided to ask the group for news. It wasn't the news we were hoping. Their daughter, Mavis, had been born the day before but was struggling. We then got the news last Monday that Mavis didn't survive. The guys in our little chat group all felt sad but it was nothing compared to what the mothers in our chat group felt.
I was sad when I heard Mavis died but when I told my sister (who's also a mother), she practically shrieked. I then realized that I'm not at the point where I'll ever know how Lilan and Mitch feel right now. But one thing I know, in her two days on Earth, Mavis has touched me and she's touched so many lives. I see that as one beautiful life - short but beautiful.
Now, Mavis is in a better place where she doesn't suffer anymore. I'm sure she's praying for her parents to find the strength to move on.
To Lilan and Mitch, you haven't lost a child. You just have one in heaven. Be strong, guys and know we're always there for you.
To Mavis, rest in peace and thank you for being in our lives for even a short period of time. We won't forget you.
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